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By Helen | 31 March 2017 | 0 Comments

Why Some Guys Can't Cum From Blowjobs?

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First, not all men can ejaculate from oral sex.
 
Some people have orgasms from oral sex and others do not. The majority of blowjobs don't lead to orgasm; some people don't want them to (they use oral as foreplay to lead to other types of sex) and others find that the stimulation simply isn't enough.
 
While that's not exactly a scientific analysis — data on what percentage of blowjobs lead directly to orgasm isn't exactly easy to come by — it's worth acknowledging how much our expectations differ from reality. 
 
To varying degrees, men may have physical, mental or emotional reasons why an orgasm doesn't happen, even during extreme pleasure. If it happens to you, you're not the first person to not get off during oral, and you won't be the last. But it's something that should be discussed more often so guys understand how typical it really is.
 


Why Do Some Guys Not Climax From Oral Sex?
 
For one, physiological factors, psychological factors, or factors completely unrelated to you. In particular, stress, tension and worries that weigh on your mind as potential reasons you wouldn't be able to finish. If something from work keeps interrupting your thoughts, it's very difficult to focus on the pleasure you feel. 
 
Not only can the presence of stressful thoughts push out the sexy ones, if you're anxiety-ridden, you might be activating the parasympathetic section of your brain's autonomic nervous system. Basically, it's the part of your psyche that's responsible for harnessing your fight-or-flight mode into action. 
 
Because of how humans are wired, if your brain's in anxiety mode, you'll genuinely struggle to maintain your arousal, making it near impossible to actually climax. 
 
And, there are any number of medical or physiological reasons why you might struggle to either achieve or maintain an erection, and those can act as a barrier to reaching climax during oral. If you're concerned about that, and it doesn't appear to be linked to your mental state, talking to your doctor about your erection issues is a good idea. 
 
Then, of course, there's the possibility that your partner's oral sex technique isn't matching up with what you need.
 
Some partners move too fast, others too slow. You might want more sensation, or less. Without the right level of what you enjoy, it's more difficult to orgasm. (Tips* Sex Dolls is a good chioce to help you cum from blowjobs) Just remember that while it might be easy to blame your partner for being "bad" at blowjobs, in reality, pleasure is a two-person game. In order for your partner to get you off, they have to know what works for you — meaning communication plays a huge role. 
 
Lack of adequate stimulation maybe another reason, which can be due to not receiving enough friction during oral sex. The sensitivity factor is a big problem, over the years mens penis has been desensitized through masturbation, oral doesn't have quite enough pressure or friction to get the job done, no matter how good it feels.
 
Inadequate stimulation can also be caused by a lack of focus. In other words, if you pay too much attention to your partner's reactions, or if you get caught in spectactorism, (watching yourself rather than being immersed in the experience) you can easily lose track of your own sensations, never reaching the high level of arousal required for orgasm. Lack of focus and spectatorism can occur even though you're aroused enough to obtain and maintain an erection.
 
And you may be suffering from unconscious emotional inhibitions that are blocking your ability to orgasm during oral sex. Are you embarrassed at the idea of coming in her mouth? Are you emotionally afraid to surrender to a woman in this way? Are you afraid of being bitten?  Are you worried that you will repulse her? Explore all the possibilities.


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To help get over the hump, here are a few tips for making sure your next blowjob experience is a successful one:
 
Adjust Your Attitude
One way to address that frustration? Care less. At the end of the day, there's much more to sex than just blowjobs, and there's more to blowjobs than orgasming. 
If you can accept that not every sex act works for every person, you can enjoy the sensation of your partner going down on you without feeling like you need to cum. You'll be able to appreciate the act for what it is, rather than judging it against what you think it should be. 
 
Open the Lines of Communication
If you feel like you typically climax from oral but haven't been able to as of late, there are a few things you can try to help. For starters, you'll want to talk to whoever it is that's going down on you — and be honest about it. 
Most people are conditioned to believe a blowjob should be all a guy needs, including your partner. If you need more than that or something's missing in your partner's technique, talk about it.
It might feel awkward to open up about what you want, but good communication is the foundation of good sex. Just like your partner should be able to tell you what they need to get off, you should be able to do it with your partner, too.
 
Ask for What You Like
Instead of being negative about what isn't working, you should focus on what you do like.
Start by letting them know how good it feels. All lovers enjoy positive reinforcement. Tell them how much you love the way it feels, the way it sounds and the way it looks when they go down on you. Give compliments before, during and after.
Being vocal is your best bet. If you don't say what you like, how will they know?
Let them know what you want in order to reach orgasm from oral. Do you need more pressure at the base? Do you want more playfulness with the tongue around the head and frenulum? Do you need a faster or more Rhyth mic pace? Give them gentle directions during sex or tell them what you want as a precursor to sex.
 
Show Them What You Like
Of course, some people are more visual learners. That's where actually showing them what works can come in handy. 
Feel free to show them what you want with your hands. Don't grab them by the back of the head (unless you know they like that), but take your hands and guide their hands. Use you hips to gently lead the pace, Rhyth m and depth. Be mindful of their throat, of course, and encourage them to use their hands as an extension of their mouth, or use yours in their place.

Adjust the Pressure
As previously mentioned, a lot of what makes a blowjob work is pressure — specifically, getting just the right amount. Too much will be painful; too little will make for a boring experience. 
Some penises require more pressure — especially at the base along the lower third of the shaft (sometimes referred to as the orgasmic platform). Many people don't use enough pressure during blowjobs because they're physically strenuous; their jaw, lips and mouth get tired quite easily. You can address this by adding your hands into the mix and using lots of lube.

On the other hand, the issue might be that there's not enough pressure in the right places. 
Some penises want deeper pressure. Once again, you address this by using your hands as an extension of your mouth (or asking your partner to do this). Slather your hands in lube. Attach them to your mouth, and you can "deep throat" without gagging.
 
Adjust the Rhyth m
If it's a Rhyth m issue? We've got the solution for that, too.
Some penises simply require more stimulation and greater speed at a rhyt hmic pace. If this is the case, consider using a vibrator. You can use a flat vibe to stimulate the inner bulb of the penis by pressing it right behind the balls along the perineum, or you can use a vibrating ring at the base.

Then there's the issue of Rhyth mic consistency — like, say, your partner's efforts tailing off before you can get in the right headspace. 
The important thing to remember is that not orgasming from a blowjob isn't a terrible fate. 

It could mean that blowjobs just aren't for you, or it could mean it's something for you and your partner to work on together. Just have fun with sex, you and your partner can still enjoy head and other sexual acts even with these issues.



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